đ± Ripple Across Time Awareness
All actions leave traces â make yours have broader, longer-term impact
I had just arrived at my high school band reunion. It had been over 33 years since I had graduated high school and I was reconnecting with friends at a new bar that had just opened on Main Street. I hadnât seen nearly 100 of my musical brothers and sisters since the days when our high school bandsâmarching, concert and jazzâranked consistently among the best of the best in Illinois. We were the Marching Streaks, hailing from Galesburg, Illinoisâa downstate farm town of 33,000 (and shrinking). We had to compete against Chicago schools that were often four times our size in population, and significantly better funded.
As we sipped our beer, my friends from the trombone section and I began the weekend of celebration. We were there to celebrate the impact of our always beloved (and sometimes feared) band director. She had shaped the lives of thousands of my peers over her fifteen years as the high school band director, and grand Pooh Bah of the musical ecosystem for Galesburg.

I had just received my beer when my smartphone buzzed. I looked down at the message. It was from Karen, a former girlfriend from almost as far in the past as my band days. It had been over 20 years since Iâd seen her.
âYou need to watch this video,â the message said. I looked. There was a young girl, perhaps 12 years old who appeared to be at a recital, sitting with a guitar in front of an audience of obviously family membersâŠhers and those for other young music students.
I had more pressing concerns. I closed my phone and returned to reconnecting with old friends.
We spent the weekend recalling how we won the state marching competition. The first timeâand to my knowledge onlyâthat one band won both the parade and field competitions at the same time. We were Grand Champions. I still own the celebratory t-shirt.
And we toasted the time when we won gold in an international concert band competition in Hawaii. We marveled at how many had returnedâŠhundreds. Some of us had traveled from as far away as Sweden and JapanâŠto pay tribute to our band director. It was obvious she had impacted so many of us

Sally Rynott was tireless. She was relentless. She neverâabsolutely neverâexpected less than 110% from us in all situations. But we learned the most important lessons of all. Lessons beyond any of the other classes I took. There is no substitute for doing the work. Practice and preparation are essential. We learned our scalesâso that music became part of our muscle memory. We could pass an 8-to-5 marching testâŠmultiple timesâŠwithout looking down. And could do it each of our high school years. We practiced every dayâŠsometimes arriving hours before school startedâŠsometimes every dog day of August during the searing Illinois heat. We mentally simulated performances days and hours before taking the field or stage.
And most importantly, we learned to work together. We learned that we had to bring our best to teamwork. And only then could we succeed. To sacrifice our individual comfort for the common good. And, of course, we learned a love of music. A love that persisted through several bands Iâve played in since.
Ripple in Time Thinking
All actions have consequences. Some may be intended. Many are unintended. How we bring ourselves to actâŠand the values we bring to our actionsâŠdetermine how positive or negative those actions ripple out.
Our actionsâand how we engage with othersâripple out across the universe in ways we canât predict or foresee. Some consequences loop around and impact us later. Decisions to put off fitness, healthy eating, and good sleep may show up years later as chronic disease. Ignoring our children for work now will come back around and lead to our being alone in old ageâwhen The Catâs in the Cradle comes true and our kids are too damn busy to see us.
Not vaccinating the populationâŠespecially the youthâŠincreases medical costs later. James Heckman, a Nobel Prize winning economist from the University of Chicago, declares that the US investing in early childhood education now is without question the biggest investment we can make to ensure that todayâs generation will make our nation competitive in the decades ahead.
Sometime our actions impact others in ways that donât feedback, and we donât ever see the implications. The actions of John Wilkes Booth may still be playing out today. We canât conceive of what the world would have been like had Lincoln led Reconstruction instead of his inept successor. Or if the assassin of Archduke Ferdinand hadnât succeededâŠwhich almost didnât happen except for an unfortunate accidentâŠwould WWI have happened? And WWII?
Our band directorâwho flew back for this celebrationâwas fortunate to see how she had impacted all those whoâd gone through her band programs. Millions of actions taken by each of us daily will impact othersâŠand we will never know how.
Systems Being Lesson

Our actions ripple out into the universe. Thatâs undeniable, whether we intend them to or not. What may matter most is the intent we bring to our actions.
The intent can fall along a continuum from necrophilic to biophilic. Erich Fromm described these two ends of a continuum. We can be more necrophilic by seeking and wallowing in death and devolution. We can be more biophilic by embracing love and constantly evolving, learning. The most affirmative way to life is by being as biophilic as possibleâall the time.
When the goal is to cause pain and sufferingâŠor when our actions occur through a lack of awareness and compassionâŠthe long term ripple impacts will likely amplify the intent. But when the intent, like that of our band directorâs, is biophilicâseeking the best of us at all timesâthe long term impacts will improve the lives of others. Of many. And can improve the planet.
Conclusion

I later watched the video from Karen. The young girl played one of my favorite songs: All I Want Is You by U2. The guitar playing was good. But the singing was amazing. As I watched her I could imagine her someday becoming another Taylor Swift or Lady Gaga. Mesmerizing.
Through tears I texted Karen back. âSheâs great,â I texted. âBut Iâm curious. Why did you so badly want me to watch that video.â
âDonât you remember?â she asked. âWhen you used to come over to my apartment and play that song. You would get lost in the music and I could feel it. That inspired me to play guitar. It was why I traded my acoustic guitar for your classical. Remember? And itâs why I teach that song to all my students now.â
That young girl never met my band director. But she was impacted just the same.
âAll actions ripple out. They all leave traces. The intent behind our actions significantly determines the impact. Whether we know it or not.â










